Kobe Bryant Is My Man Crush
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I am not a homo-sexual. I am not even willing to experiment. As a matter of fact, after having a conversation with a few friends last weekend, I decided I wouldn’t take it from another man even for a million dollars (I was sober when I made this claim). It’s simple, from a sexual perspective, I simply love the females.
However, and yes, there is a however, I can’t help but get hot and sweaty every time Kobe goes on fire. I’m not ashamed to admit that I have a man crush on Kobe. I have been a Lakers fan for quite a while and if you have read my articles in the past you will know that Kobe Bryant is my idol. I have never played on an organized basketball team, I have never had a basketball practice, but I love to play and gotta admit, I have a solid stroke and can put the ball down from three point land. Obviously, it’s highly unlikely that I can do what Kobe does from the three point line, but I can shoot pretty consistently (take a look at Kobe’s random left handed three pointer).
I am a huge basketball fan but truly don’t care about the individual achievements of specific players, not even Kobe. I am more amazed by work ethic, discipline, responsibility, and heart. There are plenty of great players out there: Allen Iverson, Kevin Garnett, Tim Duncan, Tracy McGrady, Dwyan Wade, Lebron James, Carmelo Anthony… you get the point. These players have a lot in common with Kobe, in terms of accomplishments and popularity, but there are two major differences that separate Kobe from the rest of the league.
- The first major difference between Kobe and the remainder of the league is his work ethic. I have never heard of an NBA player that has worked harder than Kobe Bryant to achieve what he has. A few years ago, Kobe decided it was time to overpower the rest of the league, so he gained 19 pounds in three months. This past summer he realized he wanted to increase his speed, so he lost some weight and started sprinting. Kobe has been known to be the last man out of the gym on a regular basis and always the first to arrive the next morning. When Kobe questioned the Lakers management for not trading Bynum to New Jersey for Kidd, there was support for his claim. He wanted a teammate to be on his side that would be willing to work as hard as he does. Lets fast forward a few months and suddenly we have Kobe’s work ethic rubbing off on Andrew Bynum who has now hired his own training coaches to get into better shape and has been recognized for doing his best to match Kobe’s intensity in the gym and practice court. Kobe was one of the first to give Bynum his props for his hard work and it has clearly paid off. I can only imagine the level of basketball if all the players put in as much work as Kobe Bryant.
- The other difference between Kobe and the other big names in the league is exactly that, “the big name.” Kobe doesn’t care about his name. He doesn’t care about his image. He doesn’t care if people like him. He doesn’t care of people hate him. Kobe goes to work everyday just like the rest of us. The difference, Kobe plays basketball and knows what it takes to win. He doesn’t care whether people chant his name during or after the win, as long as he gets the win. He has already stated a few times this year alone that the MVP doesn’t matter to him nearly as much as winning as many championships as possible. Blake Murphy of The On Deck Circle quoted Mr. 3000. I like the thought, it’s extremely fitting, but Kobe doesn’t need Bernie Mac to describe who he is, he does it himself.
Kobe Bryant, in my humble opinion, is the best basketball player in the world today and will go down in history as one of the absolute best to ever play the game. The transformation from a young showy boy who loves to score into a mature man who plays for one reason only, to win games, has been amazing to watch. There are a bunch of idiots that wear shirts to idolize Lebron as his “Witness”; truth be told, this is Kobe’s game and Lebron, as the rest of us, are just witnesses of history.
Thank you Hardwood Paroxysm for announcing today as Kobe Bryant Blog Day! Us Laker fans truly appreciate the recognition that everyone has finally given our beloved star.


March 11th, 2008 at 1:22 pm
Hey nice article man. I have the same thing going on with the man-crushes, though mine are usually more difficult to explain and make people ask questions (see: Dustin McGowan, Anthony Parker, Maurice Jones Drew, etc). So I feel you on that. It doesn’t make any of us gay, it just means were passionate. In fact, because our man-love for our idols makes us more passionate, it probably helps us with the women. Okay, so I’m reaching here. Anyways, nothing wrong with a good old fashioned man-crush.
And hey man, everyone could use a verbal assist from Bernice Mac. Everyone.
March 11th, 2008 at 1:25 pm
Thank you very much Blake. At least now I know I’m not alone with these goosebumps every time a three pointer drops in!! And I didn’t say we didn’t need Bernie Mac in our lives, I just said that Kobe is better off describing himself…
March 11th, 2008 at 2:20 pm
Blake: Dustin McGowan?? Seriously?
March 12th, 2008 at 4:42 pm
oh daniel.
i applaud you for having the balls to admit you have a man crush & i’m very pleased that mr. kobe bryant is the man of your attention. he’s my future babies daddy not just because of his sex appeal but DAMN. dude is a baller. i love the lakers with a passion but kobe makes me wanna drop my panties so high five for man crushing on kobe <3
March 15th, 2008 at 5:03 pm
Hey man, good article I like it. Just one thing though, when you say that you haven’t heard of any other player work harder than Kobe does to achieve what he has; I think Jordan might have worked just as hard if not harder. First of all let me just say this, I am an avid Kobe fan and have been a laker fan my whole life and I feel as when it is all said and done, Kobe will be the best player of all time (at least before Lebron retires). That being said I believe that Jordan had to work harder for his success simply because he is not as naturally talented as Kobe is, he had to work INCREDIBLY hard to get to where he is now. I mean the guy got cut from his highschool team for crying out loud! There is no way Jordan had as much natural talent as Kobe has. But nonetheless, I still agree with you that he is incredibly diligent in his basketball work ethic and he has more determination than ever now that he has so many weapons. As of right now I would definitely say he is the hardest working athlete in basketball.
March 21st, 2008 at 11:25 am
haha, i love it
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April 21st, 2012 at 10:31 am
Word that can describe kobe was “perfect”.. As a fan, it is belong to my kobe! Hes my man!!